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Cuisine From The Widow’s Kitchen

By Karizma Ahmed

The culinary traditions of Bengal have long been celebrated for their rich and diverse flavours, often centred around fish and meat. Iconic dishes like Machher Jhol (fish curry), Chingri Malai Curry (prawns in coconut curry), Kosha Mangsho (slow-cooked mutton) and Murgir Jhol (chicken curry) are only a few popular options in what comprises the aamish (non-vegetarian) food cannon. In fact, the prominence of these dishes cuisine gives into the popular perception that Bengali cuisine is exclusively non-vegetarian. The adage Machhe bhaate Bangali literally meaning that a Bengali is made of rice and fish, washes over a large chunk of the population that is vegetarian, out of necessity or choice.

 

A lesser-known aspect of Bengali cuisine is its delectable vegetarian offerings, which owe their popularity and refinement to an unexpected source – Bengali widows. Dishes like Aloo Posto (potatoes cooked with poppy seeds), Mochar Ghonto (curry made with banana blossoms), and Thor Bhaja (deep-fried taro root slices seasoned with spices), which are common occurrences in a Bengali household, wrap within themselves years of oppression, exclusion, and also the indomitable resilience of women. This essay delves into the historical and cultural factors that led Bengali widows to become torchbearers of vegetarian cuisine in Bengal to provide a comprehensive understanding of this fascinating culinary transformation.

 

I. Historical Context of Bengali Widows


Bengal has a long history of the practice of "suttee" (also spelt "sati"), where widows were expected to self-immolate on their husband's funeral pyre. This practice, which began to decline during the British colonial period and was officially banned in 1829, left a significant number of widows in Bengal.

 

They led a secluded and restricted life under the influence of societal norms and religious beliefs. They were confined to their homes, adhered to sombre attire, and often followed a vegetarian diet. Widows engaged in religious practices for solace and were economically dependent on their families. These widows often shunned and marginalized by society, were forced into a life of seclusion in widowhood. Consequently, they found solace and purpose in their kitchens, eventually becoming custodians of vegetarian culinary traditions.

 

II. The Emergence of Vegetarianism Among Bengali Widows

 

Widows in Bengal were typically subjected to religious and societal restrictions that limited their food choices. Hinduism, which is the predominant religion in Bengal, has a strong vegetarian tradition. Widows often adopted vegetarianism as a way to adhere to religious norms and gain social acceptance. According to Sen (2019), widows turned to vegetarianism as a means of religious piety and to align themselves with the cultural practices of the time (p. 112). This shift towards vegetarianism among Bengali widows was, in many cases, driven by a genuine desire to lead a life in accordance with their religious beliefs.

 

As a result of their seclusion and limited resources, Bengali widows had to innovate and experiment with vegetarian ingredients to create flavorful dishes. They began to master the art of using locally available vegetables, herbs, and spices to craft unique and delicious vegetarian recipes. Chakravorty (2017) highlights how the constraints of widowhood led to culinary creativity, with widows developing intricate recipes that would later become staples of Bengali vegetarian cuisine (p. 75).

 

The enforced vegetarianism imposed on high-caste Hindu Bengali women had a dual purpose - to suppress a desire deemed more dangerous than even the craving for fish or meat: their sexuality (Sen 12). In some instances, it was even believed that this isolated lifestyle could lead to malnutrition, effectively serving as a premature death sentence. The prevailing notion was that widowhood made a woman's sexual impulses unstable and susceptible to disruption. A woman's sexual appetite was seen as a source of such anxiety that it was considered necessary to regulate her body, as she was deemed incapable of controlling it herself (Sen 13).

 

III. Widows as Custodians of Bengali Vegetarian Cuisine

 

The plight of widows in Bengal, as revealed through Mohona Kanjilal's book "A Taste of Time: A Food History of Calcutta," paints a poignant picture of their resilience in the face of adversity (Chatterjee 3). Stripped of their entitlement and rights, including the operation of the kitchen—a space traditionally reserved for women—widows found themselves in a challenging predicament. Sen, drawing from the stories of her great-grandmother, sheds light on the resourcefulness of a widowed relative, relegated to a secluded corner of the cookhouse, adding delicate nuances to their vegetarian cuisine.

 

Unable to partake in fish or meat, widows ingeniously crafted niraamish dishes that mimicked the flavours of meat, using everything, from roots to stems. These culinary innovations not only showcased their creative prowess but also exemplified their economic intelligence, often surpassing that of the rest of the family. Although physically located in the kitchen, widows inhabited a distinct mental space defined by orthodox and patriarchal norms. However, their ability to fashion a delectable kitchen within those confines is a testament to their adaptability and ingenuity, making their culinary world not only bearable but also intriguing. The legacy of these resilient women continues to influence and enrich Bengali cuisine today.

 

Conclusion

 

The contribution of these widows to vegetarian cuisine extended beyond their own kitchens. As they shared their culinary knowledge and skills, vegetarianism gained prominence in Bengali society. This shift was instrumental in fostering a broader appreciation for vegetarian dishes, which began to feature prominently in Bengali festivals, rituals, and daily meals.

 

Bengali widows, who were once marginalized and secluded, emerged as torchbearers of vegetarian cuisine in Bengal due to the unique circumstances of their lives. Through religious influence, culinary innovation, and their role as custodians, they played a vital part in shaping the rich and diverse vegetarian culinary tradition that Bengal is known for today. The legacy of Bengali widows in the realm of vegetarian cuisine stands as a testament to the resilience and creativity of individuals in the face of adversity.

 

Works Cited

 

1. Chakravorty, K. (2017). Culinary Diversity and Regionalism in Bengali Cuisine: An Exploration. International Journal of Gastronomy and Food Science, 10, 72-80.

 

2. Sen, D. (2019). The Widows of Bengal: A Legacy of Oppression and Empowerment. Journal of South Asian Studies, 42(1), 109-128

 

3. Chatterjee, A. (2023, January). The Bengali Widow’s Kitchen: Looking Back at an Obscure Legacy. NEW LITERARIA: An International Journal of Interdisciplinary Studies in Humanities, Volume 4 (No. 1,), 32–37. https://doi.org/10.48189/nl.2023.v04i1.004

 

4. Sen, M. (2022, July 20). The unsung architects of Bengali cuisine are generations of dutiful widows. Quartz. The unsung architects of Bengali cuisine  


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